Before launching Trend-Able, only my immediate family (and a few men I dated postdivorce -TMI?) had actually seen me in my afos (ankle-foot orthosis). I mostly kept them hidden under my clothing, not so much out of shame (age & Xanax helped with that) but more because, here comes the clich, they dont define me.

Plus, theyre really ugly. I mean, who decided to make them bright blue? Couldnt they have just as easily named them Black Rockers? or Skin Tone Rockers. Clearly, the brace designer doesnt wear afos themselves, or, is totally fashion illiterate. Am I wrong?

They are not pretty, but in order to grow our perfectly imperfect tribe of people with invisible disabilities, & show all of my cute shoes for afos recommendations, I occasionally have to post photos of myself, actually in said braces.

Usually, when I post photos showing my braces on social media, I get a ton of comments like, youre so brave and I wish I was as confident as you, etc..But, in my everyday life, off of Trend-Ables Facebook & Instagram pages, I choose to conceal my afos.

The way I see it, everyone has stuff and my disabilities/neuromuscular disorder (read about me here), doesnt need to be my lead or overtake my style. I inherited CMT disorder; Its not who I am. Plus, Its not a subject I want to discuss in the first 30 seconds of meeting someone.

Just as there are people who, after completing chemo treatment for breast cancer, proudly sport pink ribbons & put Im a survivor bumper stickers on their cars, there are those choose not to.

As Trend-Ables tagline reads, my disability is not an accessory. So, unless Gucci or Louis Vuitton start making leg braces, Im good with keeping mine concealed under a cute pair of jeans or a maxi dress. But, thats just me.

Which leads me to the question, why do other afo wearers choose to show or not show their afos? Are those that show their leg braces more confident than those of us who dont? Are they immune to all the glances & stares? Do others hide theirs for similar reasons as me?

I asked some members of our tribe why they choose to show or not show their afos. I hope you find their responses as interesting & inspiring as I do. I would love to hear from you in the comments box at the end of this post about your choice!


Daffny L.

I choose to show them because Im tired of hiding who I am. I want to live my life as fully as possible and embracing my braces has enabled me to accept myself in ways I never have before. And by doing so I have freed myself of the worries and fears I had before. Its made me braver, happier, and more compassionate.

Kaitlin P.

Hiding afos or showing them. Which is better?

After I had surgery in October for a chipped bone and calf lengthening, my orthopedic surgeon said wearing an AFO after surgery was a must, even though I hadnt worn one in over 20 years. I told myself, this brace is going to become my new best friend whether I like it or not.

I have a lot of feelings about this. I asked for a custom design and had the lab add glitter to make the brace match more of my personality.

Hiding afos or showing them. Which is better?

This brace makes me look more disabled than I have in recent years.

I get questions and stares, but the brace improves my ability to walk, run and work out, which improves my quality-of-life . I am trying my best to look at it as being able to do things better than I did before, So, Im trying my best to focus on thatI feel strong and confident wearing the brace, so I am celebrating it!!

Julie S.

Hiding afos or showing them. Which is better?

I want to defy the stereotypes that come with the word disabled that stylish girls and adventurous girls can be disabled, and it doesnt define us. I hope by wearing my braces publicly, others feel more comfortable wearing theirs out as well. I hope to normalize them so people wont even think twice when they see them.


Cindy D.

Muscular Dystrophy is fairly new for me, so I choose to conceal my braces. But, Ive always loved blue jeans so its kind of a personal preference and comfort zone for me!

I work for an airline and my uniform conceals the braces. But recently, there was a little girl with the same type of braces (blue rockers) as me. I showed her mine and she said, mommy, I want to be just like her. She had the biggest smile on her faceit made me feel good :)

Laura P.

Ive worn bilateral afos for 10 years now & have always concealed them in public. Its just not my thing to bare my braces. I dont have a problem talking about the fact that I have foot drop & MS, I just dont want to walk around with them & have that be what others focus on.

Thanks to Lainies blog, I have found a ton of fashionable shoes & clothing that conceals them. Ive lost weight, exercise, & Im more comfortable in my own skin than I was pre MS.

Julie F.

I am fairly new to using AFOs and currently choose to keep them concealed under my clothes. I guess Id rather not announce my other-ness right off. Anyone who spends any time with me will quickly find out that I have issues. I guess I want a bit of a delay on that, for my own self-preservation and vanity. Its a complex issue for women in particular.


Cyndi M

Hiding afos or showing them. Which is better?

I wear bilateral AFOs. When I first started wearing them I only wore one brace. I didnt have a problem showing it if I wore midi length dresses to work. As my autoimmune condition progressed, I started wearing a second brace. Two AFOs were more than I was emotionally able to share with the world & I only wore pants.

As time passed, Ive grown more accepting of my condition and the AFOs. I dont mind so much if they peek out from under my midi dress or cropped pants. AFOs help me live my best possible life.

Linda K.

Whether I show my braces or not, depends on the temperature & my comfort level. If its summer, Im more likely to show them. In the winter, I dont. Its really cold here! . The days of me having to always hiding my braces, are for the most part, over! I have a tribe and they are all my #cmtstrongtribe #bareit.

Kimberly O

For some time I didnt show my leg braces because I had a difficult time accepting them. I really missed being able to just throw on my dance shoes and glide my way to the dance floor. With time, Ive come to be content with my leg braces. When I look down at my feet after 4 years of paralysis, I tell myself to be grateful for each step Im able to take because of them..

When I put them on, I can stand and walk, which has led me to be more confident about showing themWhen I go to church, and wear dresses or skirts, I mostly cover them. Of course, the right shoe makes a difference!

Estela Lugo

Hiding afos or showing them. Which is better?

I used to go to herculean efforts to try to hide my AFOs growing up until my 30s. I remember my first time braving it out about 6-7 years ago. It was a hot day in Florida and we were going on a family trip to Disney World. I figured, if I cant show them at The Happiest Place on Earth, then where can I?

I was nervous about being stared at but also didnt feel like melting all day in long pants. My best friend, (now boyfriend) turned to me and said, Who cares? You look great and were gonna have an awesome time. He was right. Nobody really seemed to notice much and we had the best day ever.

There are times still when Ill wear boots over my braces with a skirt or dress but there are also times when Im empowered by showing them. It opens conversations for disability awareness, inspires others and expresses the confidence Ive found after many years of shame.


Hiding afos or showing them. Which is better?

Trend-Able (meaning me) is all about empowering people with tips, hacks & encouragement so that they can be the best versions of themselves, & live happy and amazing lives despite physical challenges.

If you feel confident & good about yourself showing your afos in public, then by all means, show them! If you dont feel good about your yourself showing your afos, then dont! As they say, when you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, you look good. Its an individual choice!

When a woman knows who she is, and lives true to herself, she radiates confidence & beauty braces showing, or not!



PS. Every Afo wearer needs an EmBRACE it tee. Pay it forward & shop them here.

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